How to Talk to Your Partner About a Prenup
Bringing up a prenup is the hardest part for most couples. Here is how to talk to your partner about it calmly, kindly and early — so it brings you closer, not apart.
Talking About a Prenup
Raising it, keeping it fair, handling disagreement, and the money conversations engaged couples should have before the wedding.
Start here: How to Talk to Your Partner About a Prenup
Is a Prenup Unromantic? Reframing the Conversation
Worried a prenup is unromantic? Here is a kinder way to see it — as an honest, caring conversation that many couples find actually strengthens their relationship.
Does Wanting a Prenup Mean You Expect Divorce?
Does asking for a prenup mean you're planning to fail? Not at all. Here is why wanting a prenup is about preparation, not pessimism.
Are Prenups a Red Flag?
Is a prenup request a red flag? Usually it's just sensible planning — but the way it's handled can be telling. Here's how to read the situation.
What to Do If Your Partner Won't Sign a Prenup
Partner reluctant to sign a prenup? Pressure backfires. Here is how to understand their worries, address them fairly, and find a way forward together.
Do Prenups Hurt Trust in a Relationship?
Many fear a prenup will damage trust. In practice, an honest, fair conversation about money often does the opposite. Here is why.
Who Suggests a Prenup? Whose Idea Should It Be?
Should the wealthier partner raise the prenup, or both? Here is how to handle who suggests it — and why it works best as a joint decision.
Prenup Disagreement: What to Do If You Disagree on Terms
Disagreeing on parts of a prenup is normal. Here is how to work through the sticking points fairly — and reach terms you both feel good about.